So, a quick trip to apache.conf which lives in /etc/apache2 on debian3.1 and a change to the settings.
I've created the following settings for the conf file: each section is part of the IfModule preforc declaration. A quick restart of apache and all is well.
prefork.c:
StartServers 8worker.c:
MinSpareServers 5
MaxSpareServers 20
MaxClients 256
MaxRequestsPerChild 1000
StartServers 2perchild.c:
MaxClients 256
MinSpareThreads 25
MaxSpareThreads 75
ThreadsPerChild 25
MaxRequestsPerChild 0
NumServers 5
StartThreads 5
MinSpareThreads 5
MaxSpareThreads 10
MaxThreadsPerChild 20
MaxRequestsPerChild 0